Saturday, 1 October 2016

A proud army brat

My dad has lost so many of his frnds during war or technical failures. There were days where there's no phone calls between us because he was in an area where it was difficult to find a telephone, once he was in jaisalmer during 1999 kargil war we got news dat few soldiers died during fixing mines, and dat was the day we didn't get a single call which was regular mumma was crying and I was hardy 5 to 6yrs. Old and trying to find the reason behind her tears I asked her many times but her unsatisfactory answers satisfied me at dat age coz I didn't knew that my father is not only a super hero for me but for the whole nation and finally arornd 10.30 p.m. he called up to inform us that he’s okay.
We children use to stand with eyes full of hope waiting for the bus with desire that next bus will surely bring my dad. I have been through such nights when I had to tie my and pappas hand together so that I can see him in the morning. I have seen many of my civilian frnds coming to bus stand with their fathers but the person use to stand next to me was my mumma she was the one who played the role of a dad too in his absence. Now I feel, to be a wife of a soldier requires the same bravery as a soldier needs. Her face with no stress but her heart full of worries now this is all what I can remember and feel about her, she is indeed a lady soldier but without a uniform fighting against her fears and managing every thing with the brightest smile on her face.
I felt his absence in my school programs PT meetings and many more such events but after the news of uri attack I can realize the pain and grief of those army brats who lost their father and some their sons cause I too being a proud daughter of solider cannot exactly relate the pain but can feel the emptiness...
This is their profession and I don’t think there’s been a single day where they ever complained they wakes up with a big smile on their faces because they are serving their nation.

And now I would like to thank everyone who are involved in surgical strike.
A special thanks to our honorable prime minister Mr. Narendra Modi for this brilliant step. 😊

Monday, 2 June 2014

Born to rule

A girl is forced to marry at the age of 23 why???...
Dont she have dreams dun she have ability to make her dream come true dun she have rights to live her dream???...
Any answer???...
Ther's a big NO
No one is having a logical reason behind dis stupidity
A girl dun wanna marry at 23 or 25 dat dsnt mean she is having affair or she dun wanna marry, she might be having some planes for her future.
A girl wanna work after marriage dat dsnt mean she wont give tym to her family, she known's how to manage tym
A girl comming late at home dsnt mean she was doing anything wrong outside, she might be havng loads of work
If a girl ware short dress dat dsnt show her character , she dun ware it regularly why ppl dun notice her when she ware full dress salwaar kamiz
When a girl want to be alone dsnt mean she is upset or hurt, she must b thinking wat should be her next step
When A girl ask u to leave her alone she really want u to be wid her and support her

"Dedicated To Girls !


Smoke a cigarette for the first time, and make it your
last

 Don’t straighten your hair for a week, see how many
compliments you get

Blast your favourite song even when your mum has told
you off for playing it too loudly. Enjoy those 3 minutes of
pure happiness before she pulls the plug out.

Say yes to going out, you’ll have something to tell your
grandchildren about

Eat the cupcake, you have better things to worry about
than those 300 calories

Do yoga and meditate as often as possible

Stand up for yourself. Someone called you a slut?
Someone said you are ugly? Someone said your art work
was boring and dull? That is your cue to fucking stand up
for yourself and make them speechless

Don’t respond to a group of males whistling at you.
You’re a human being, not a damn dog

Wear loads of leather, a fur coat,
heels and purple lipstick. Do it for yourself, not for the
guy next door.

If you’re having a bad day, cry, scream, punch a
pillow, throw stuff around. Then you pick up the mess,
including yourself and get back up.

Smile, be polite and get on peoples good sides for
starters

Stop waiting for your crush, stop dressing up for the
bar man that serves you a free drink or staying extra
hours at work for your boss. Stop impressing these stupids
and start impressing yourself.

Laugh until you cry, and when the girl sitting next to
you in class tells you to shut up, laugh even louder.

Do whatever feels right in the moment, laugh, cringe
and regret it later. Repeat.

PS :- You R D Only One Who Can Make Yourself Smile
Don't Give A Damn To AnyOne To Ruin Your Happiness
U r not a doll to play wid
stand do wat ever ur heart says
U r a independent girl n women of a free country u r here to rule no to be ruled•••

Sunday, 5 May 2013

poor india

yestarday I was surfing on net and I saw an artical "GIRL AND WOMEN TRAFFICKING"
we all know what is trafficking, women are bought and sold with impunity and trafficked to other countries from different parts of India. These girls and women are sourced from Dindigal, Madurai, Tiruchirapalli, and Chengalpattu in TamilNadu, Gaya, Kishanganj, Patna, Katihar, Purnea, Araria and Madhubani from Bihar, Murshidabad and 24 Parganas in West Bengal, Maharajgunj from UP, Dholpur, Alwar, Tonk from Rajasthan, Mangalore, and Gulbarga and Raichur from Karnataka. These women and girls are supplied to Thailand, Kenya, South Africa and Middle East countries like Bahrin, Dubai, Oman, Britain, South Korea and Philippines. They are forced to work as sex workers undergoing severe exploitation and abuse. These women are the mostly  in contracting HIV infection. 
Every year more then 10,000 of girls and womens are forced to do this just because they are uneducated  'jaha jaao waha ek bada sa poster laga rakha hai ladli padhegi tabhi to badhegi is tarah se padhegi or badhegi ladli' . Few are forced to do this and few do this because they are poor and they dont have money to full fill there besic needs. 'ellection aate hi sarkar ki dhakosle baazi shuru ho jaati hai hum ye karege wo karege garibi hatayege thenga garibi hataoge khud ki jeb jis din bhar jaaegi na tab bhi hum jaise aam log inhe kabhi nazar nahi aaege' . I have many questions in my mind but kya fayada mai to ek aam insaan hoo. In this country there is no value of common men's thaught.'pata nahi kya hoga humara or is desh ka we cant do anything or kuch kare bhi to police ki laathiya alag se khaao muma papa ne aaj tak ek thappad nahi mara to laathi khaane se dar to lagta hai fir bhi kahi na kahi protest me pahuch hi jaate hai. 
kya nayak movie k tarah koi nek aam insaan ek din k liye minister nahi ban sakta kya?

Saturday, 27 April 2013

shame on DELHI

It's hights now 'aur kitna bardaasht kare"
Government shoul start promoting femail foceticide in delhi.
A GIRL NOT BORN is better than a GIRL BORN and RAPED 

Tuesday, 23 April 2013

I'am just a lill girl :(

This time five year old raped, how could some one think of it. she is just five I cant believe 'aise log bhi hai yaha'. she wasn't even aware of that bloody situation. 'wo sirf paach saal  ki hai darandigai ki hadd hoti hai yaar... '
she was kept hostage and raped for 3 days

so what excuse would you give for a 5 year old being raped?

she was not wearing the right clothes?
she was roaming with the wrong guy?
she gave the wrong signals to the guy therefore she is herself responsible for being raped?

It has to be one of these reasons

because in India the rapist is never at fault, its always the victim
'mera kasoor kya hai'

Monday, 22 April 2013

ME & MAA...

A mother is our friend, philosopher and guide. the one who influences a child the most. it's not so easy to be a mom . like my mummy says ,(whenever I irritate her) 'jab maa banogi tab pata chalega '
Mothers are probably the most reserved human being on earth. Songs has been composed  about them, poem's written about them, they even have a day set aside every year just for them.
she is the most important women of our life...

LOVE U MUM LOVE U ALOT...
I'LL MAKE U FEEL PROUD


'Agar in darindo ki nazar se bachi saki toh'


       most beautyfull neckless a mother can ware is 
  not gold or gems, but her childs arms around her neck

Friday, 15 March 2013

LADIES SPECIAL

wow UP state Roadway Transport corporation launched a new special buses for women "SAKHI SEVA", in Noida. it is the bad effort because the service ends at 5.30 p.m. and the buse full of girls make it all more unsafe for the girls. someone said "haathi chale bazaar kutte bhowke hazar"or  "jab ek haathi ko dekh hazaar kutte bhowkte hai to naa jaane itti saari ladkia dekh kar kitte kutte bhowkege".
with the 5.30 p.m. deadline, they want us to think that 'nice girls' only stay out till 5.30pm only and uske baad sabko ghar chale jaana chahiye? if they do evrn a littile bit of reserch can tell them that half the city's working population are women. we work as hard and as long as the men in our offices. we cannot give this lame excuse to our boss that the last women's bus 5.30 hai to hume time par nikalna padega, and because of such tmings, the transport authorities might not get a good response, fir bolege, humne to service start ki thi, ladkio ne use nahi kari and then after some time these buses will disappear. The ladies bus concept sounds good, but the timings make it senseless. May be the school going girls benefit for it, but working women dun leave office before 7 pm there is no point for keping this bus for ladies. and jaha tak I think government office waale bhi 5.30 baje k baad hi office se nikalte hai. authoritises are not realising that the independent working females work for long hours even over time too. I'am confused is this bus service is only for school  going girls or for working ladies. This bus is a big LOL from the authority